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Thursday, January 29, 2009

17 Signs of Falling in LOVE

SEVENTEEN:
U LOOK AT THEIR PROFILE/PICTURE CONSTANTLY



SIXTEEN:
WHEN YOUR ON THE PHONE WITH THEM LATE AT NIGHT AND THEY HANG UP, YOU STILL MISS THEM EVEN WHEN IT WAS JUST TWO MINUTES AGO.



FIFTEEN:
YOU READ THEIR TEXTS or IM'S OVER AND OVER AGAIN.



FOURTEEN:
YOU WALK REALLY SLOW WHEN YOU'RE WITH THEM



THIRTEEN:
YOU FEEL SHY WHENEVER YOU'RE/THEY' RE AROUND.



ELEVEN:
WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT THEM, YOUR HEART BEATS FASTER AND SLOWER AT THE SAME TIME



TEN:
YOU SMILE WHEN YOU HEAR THEIR VOICE.



NINE:
WHEN YOU LOOK AT THEM, YOU CAN'T SEE THE OTHER PEOPLE AROUND YOU, All YOU SEE IS HIM/HER.



EIGHT:
YOU START LISTENING TO SLOW SONGS, WHILE THINKING OF THEM



SEVEN:
THEY'RE ALL YOU THINK ABOUT.



SIX:
YOU GET HIGH JUST FROM THEIR SCENT.



FIVE:
YOU REALIZE THAT YOU'RE ALWAYS SMILING TO YOURSELF WHEN YOU THINK ABOUT THEM.



FOUR:
YOU WOULD DO ANYTHING FOR THEM, OR ANYTHING TO SEE THEM.



THREE:
WHILE READING THIS, THERE WAS ONE PERSON ON YOUR MIND THE WHOLE TIME...



TWO:
YOU WERE SO BUSY THINKING ABOUT THAT PERSON, YOU DIDN'T NOTICE NUMBER TWELVE.



ONE:
YOU JUST SCROLLED UP TO CHECK & ARE NOW SILENTLY LAUGHING AT YOURSELF.


NOW MAKE A WISH. YOU KNOW YOU WANT TO.......


IF YOU DIDN'T NOTICE NUMBER 12, POST THIS AS: "17 signs of falling in LOVE." =)

Tuesday, January 27, 2009

Alphabet of HAPPINESS

A - Accept
Accept others for who they are and for the choices they've made even if you have difficulty understanding their beliefs, motives, or actions.

B - Break Away
Break away from everything that stands in the way of what you hope to accomplish with your life.

C
- Create
Create a family of friends whom you can share your hopes, dreams, sorrows, and happiness with.

D
- Decide
Decide that you'll be successful and happy come what may, and good things will find you. The roadblocks are only minor obstacles along the way.

E
- Explore
Explore and experiment. The world has much to offer, and you have much to give. And every time you try something new, you'll learn more about yourself.

F
- Forgive
Forgive and forget. Grudges only weigh you down and inspire unhappiness and grief. Soar above it, and remember that everyone makes mistakes.

G
- Grow
Leave the childhood monsters behind. They can no longer hurt you or stand in your way.

H
- Hope
Hope for the best and never forget that anything is possible as long as you remain dedicated to the task.

I
- Ignore
Ignore the negative voice inside your head. Focus instead on your goals and remember your accomplishments. Your past success is only a small inkling of what the future holds.

J
- Journey
Journey to new worlds, new possibilities, by remaining open-minded. Try to learn something new every day, and you'll grow.

K
- Know
Know that no matter how bad things seem, they'll always get better. The warmth of spring always follows the harshest winter.

L
- Love
Let love fill your heart instead of hate. When hate is in your heart, there's room for nothing else, but when love is in your heart, there's room for endless happiness.

M
- Manage
Manage your time and your expenses wisely, and you'll suffer less stress and worry. Then you'll be able to focus on the important things in life.

N
- Notice
Never ignore the poor, infirm, helpless, weak, or suffering. Offer your assistance when possible, and always your kindness and understanding.

O
- Open
Open your eyes and take in all the beauty around you. Even during the worst of times, there's still much to be thankful for.

P
- Play
Never forget to have fun along the way. Success means nothing without happiness.

Q
- Question
Ask many questions, because you're here to learn.

R
- Relax
Refuse to let worry and stress rule your life, and remember that things always have a way of working out in the end.

S
- Share
Share your talent, skills, knowledge, and time with others. Everything that you invest in others will return to you many times over.

T
- Try
Even when your dreams seem impossible to reach, try anyway. You'll be amazed by what you can accomplish.

U
- Use
Use your gifts to your best ability. Talent that's wasted has no value. Talent that's used will bring unexpected rewards.

V
- Value
Value the friends and family members who've supported and encouraged you, and be there for them as well.

W
- Work
Work hard every day to be the best person you can be, but never feel guilty if you fall short of your goals. Every sunrise offers a second chance.

X
- X-Ray
Look deep inside the hearts of those around you and you'll see the goodness and beauty within.

Y
- Yield
Yield to commitment. If you stay on track and remain dedicated, you'll find success at the end of the road.

Z
- Zoom
Zoom to a happy place when bad memories or sorrow rears its ugly head. Let nothing interfere with your goals. Instead, focus on your abilities, your dreams, and a brighter tomorrow.

Thursday, November 27, 2008

Tips on a Relationship

The ten types of relationship that won't work:
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1. You care about your partner more than he does about you.
2. Your partner cares more about you than you do about him.
3. You are in love with your partner's potential.
4. You are on a rescue mission.
5. You look up to your partner as a role model.
6. You are infatuated with your partner for external reasons.
7. You have partial compatibility.
8. You choose a partner in order to be rebellious.
9. You choose a partner as a reaction to your previous partner.
10. Your partner is unavailable.

The six BIGGEST mistakes we make in the beginning of a relationship:
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1. We don't ask enough questions.
2. We ignore warning signs of potential problems.
3. We make premature compromises.
4. We give in to Lust Blindness.
5. We give in to material seduction.
6. We put Commitment Before Compatibility .

Seven Wrong Reasons to be in a Relationship:
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1. Pressure (age, family, friends, etc.)
2. Loneliness and desperation
3. Sexual hunger
4. Distraction from your own life
5. To avoid growing up
6. Guilt
7. To fill up your emotional or spiritual emptiness.

The Lust into Love Formula
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1. First, you feel powerful sexual chemistry with someone or, in raw
terms,lust.
2. Next, you act on those urges and have sex with that person.
3. Then you experience some guilt or discomfort having been so
sexually intimate with someone you aren't that emotionally connected
with.
4. Finally you create a relationship with that person to legitimize
your lust .

Five Realities about Love
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1. Love is not enough to make a relationship work it needs
compatibility and it needs commitment.
2. It just takes a moment to experience infatuation, but true love
takes time.
3. It is possible to experience true love with more than one person
there are many potential partners you could be happy with.
4. The right partner will fulfill many of your needs but not all of
them.
5. Good sex has nothing to do with true love, but making love does.

Five Deadly Myths about Love
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1. True love conquers all.
2. When it's really true love, you will know it the moment you meet
the other person.
3. There is only one true love in the world who is right for you.
4. The perfect partner will fulfill you completely in every way.
5. When you experience powerful sexual chemistry with someone, it
must be love .

Fatal flaws to watch out for in a partner:
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1. Addictions.
2. Anger.
3. Victim consciousness.
4. Control freak
5. Sexual Dysfunction.
6. Hasn't grown up.
7. Emotionally unavailable.
8. Hasn't recovered from past relationships.
9. Emotional damage from childhood.

Here are seven compatibility time bombs that can destroy a
relationship:
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1. Significant age difference.
2. Different religious background.
3. Different social, ethnic, or educational background.
4. Toxic in-laws.
5. Toxic ex-spouse.
6. Toxic Stepchildren.
7. Long-distance relationships .

Six qualities to look for in a mate:
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1. Commitment to personal growth.
2. Emotional openness
3. Integrity
4. Maturity and responsibility
5. High self-esteem.
6. Positive Attitude towards life

"TRUE LOVE cannot be found where it does not truly exist, nor cannot
be hidden where it truly does."

"God has given each of you some special abilities; be sure to use
them to help each other, passing to others God's many kinds of
blessings." -1 Peter 4:10

Wednesday, November 26, 2008

Spending Your Time Wisely

PLAN while others are playing.
STUDY while others are sleeping.
DECIDE while others are delaying.

PREPARE while others are daydreaming.
BEGIN while others are procrastinating.
WORK while others are wishing.

SAVE while others are wasting.
LISTEN while others are talking.
SMILE while others are frowning.

COMMEND while others are criticizing.
PERSIST while others are quitting.

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

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